爱她还是爱他?性别的多选题 The Multiple Choices in the Sexual Orientation exam

中国学生对“多选题”肯定不会陌生,从小学开始的各类考试中“多选题”往往令大多数的考生们抓耳挠腮,无从决择。而面对性别中的多项选择,他们面对的不只是选择的困惑,同时也要面对一些拥有答案的人的质疑,是思想的开放? 是心理的困惑? 是人生的游戏? 还是本质的贪婪? 有人说双性恋的生活象酒,不是因为它甘醇,而是因为它发酵过程的复杂。喜欢男人,喜欢女人,都喜欢,都不喜欢,听起来他们的生活因充满了不确定因素而显得异样丰富。“男生和女生对我来说都有吸引力,但却不代表我会同时和他们/她们谈恋爱”Eva说,在情感方面同时选择过男人和女人的Eva将做客“同志亦凡人”向朋友们讲述她多项选择的人生旅程。

Chinese students are certainly no strangers to the concept of “multiple choice”… it is not uncommon to find students from as young as primary schoolers scratching their heads and biting their lips, perplexed and indecisive in the face of the multiple choice sections in their exams. But in the face of “multiple choices” when it comes to sexual orientation, they face confusion and doubts of a different kind… is it a matter of thought- of open or narrow-mindedness? Or a deeper psychological confusion? Or one of life’s games? Or simply, a matter of greed? Some say the life of bisexualism is like wine- its not just about the flavors and tastes at the end, but the intriguing complexity of the process of its creation. Loving men, loving women, loving everyone, or no one… it may seem that such lives are rich and complex because of indecisiveness and confusion. “I am attracted to both men and women … but this does not mean that I will have a relationship with both at the same time” says Eva. Eva, who has been in relationships with both men and women, will be our guest in the next episode of Queer as Folk, where she will share her thoughts and experiences on her life journey of multiple choices.

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